Taylor Swift is one of the biggest global superstars to exist, and despite her increasing popularity, she has always managed to have a special and personalized connection with her fans. Since the Fearless tour, she has held meet and greets both before the concert and after the concert, and has not charged a single penny for meeting fans. Post show meet and greet has had multiple names over the years, such as “T-Party” during the Fearless and Speak Now tours, “Club Red” during the Red tour, “Loft 89” during the 1989 tour, and “rep Room” during the reputation tour. For post show meet and greets, Taylor’s mother Andrea and her management look in the crowd for around twenty-thirty five fans during the show who stand out by either being overly enthusiastic or by wearing over the top costumes. After the show, the fans are brought backstage into a room where they can take pictures in the polaroid booths, eat pizza, and hang out with other fans before eventually meeting Taylor. Pre-show meet and greets used to be fans who either had media connections or were radio contest winners, but over the years has evolved to include fans hand-picked from social media by Taylor herself or her team. Because she is one of the few celebrities who does free meet and greets and has fans be picked out of the crowd, many fans will spend hours and hours making signs and costumes and then sharing it all over social media in hopes that someone from Taylor’s team will notice them and thus they will be picked to meet Taylor. As Taylor’s fan base grew bigger and bigger over her career the more her popularity increased, there began to be issues with which particular fans got to meet her. Before the 1989 tour, fans were allowed to meet Taylor as many times as they could, meaning that the fans who went to multiple shows and were always dressed up had the opportunity to meet their idol once or twice during the tour. This resulted in many fans complaining how the same fans got to meet Taylor over and over again which diminished the chance of new fans having the opportunity to meet her just once. As a result, a rule was created during the 1989 tour where if you had met Taylor before, even if it was years ago, you were not allowed to meet her again. However, this rule is controversial because of its inconsistency. For example, a fan from New Jersey named Alex who had met Taylor five years ago on the Red tour was called the day before the reputation Stadium tour hit New Jersey saying that she would be meeting her idol again the next day. However, five minutes later, she received another phone call back from Taylor’s management saying that there was confusion and that she would not be meeting Taylor the next day. However, the week earlier, during the reputation tour’s stop in Washington DC, a fan who had met her only two months before during open night was allowed to meet her again as well as another set of fans who had met her on the streets while camping out for SNL only seven months earlier. Another incident that was greatly criticized was when her management invited a fan who they thought had never met Taylor to a pre-show meet and greet, and once they discovered she had already met Taylor before, they pulled her out of the meet and greet line saying they had given her spot to another fan and that she had to leave. Thus, it is unclear to fans how long time needs to pass for the opportunity to meet their idol once more, or if that opportunity will come at all again. As a result of this drama with pre-show meet and greets, they were abolished for fans right before the Nashville tour date and are now restricted only to media outlets.
Another inconsistency found in the rule that you can only meet Taylor Swift once is the issue of when to split groups up, which is mainly found to be a problem for after show meet and greets. The best example for this scenario actually happened to my best friends and I during the first night of the reputation tour’s stop in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. I attended the show with my two best friends, Taylor nicknamed “Baby Tay” and Makayla- both Baby Tay and I have met Taylor already but Makayla has not (Makayla has since met Taylor- she met her in Nashville last summer). The week prior, the two of them attended the show in Columbus, Ohio and during the show, they ran into Andrea Swift, Taylor’s mother, and in their conversation with her, they talked about how much Taylor means to them. Andrea then proceeded to tell my friends to find her at her next show, indicating to them that there was a chance the both of them could meet Taylor together in Philadelphia. Towards the end of the show in Philadelphia, we found Taylor’s mother but instead of Baby Tay and Makayla being handed passes for rep Room, they were denied because Baby Tay had already met Taylor and they did not want to split groups up. Mrs. Swift said that if she were to allow Baby Tay to meet Taylor again, she would be crucified on Twitter and it would make the management look bad. All three of us pleaded with her mother and her management to let Makayla finally meet Taylor but they said persistent on not splitting up groups and instead they were given exclusive floor tickets to second show in Philadelphia as a consolation. However, after going on Twitter after the show, we read tweets that another group that had some friends who had met Taylor and others who had not were split up, thus making my friends wonder what they did wrong not to be considered an exception.
Although I completely understand that the rule allows for fans who have never met Taylor to finally be given the chance to meet her again, the lack of consistency is frustrating. The rule should either be completely enforced and no exceptions should be made or should be completely abolished. This inconsistency makes fans wonder why they are not worthy of meeting their idol again and wonder what they have done wrong in the eyes of her management to be denied. For example, at the album release party back in November, a majority of the fans in the room had met her before, some whom had met her just three weeks prior at one of the secret sessions. Yet, for the secret sessions some fans were denied as plus ones because they had already met her previously. No exceptions should be made- if a fan who has met Taylor three years earlier is allowed to meet her again because Taylor personally requested him or her, then every fan who is contacted by her management or found in the crowd who has already met her should be allowed again as well. Watching my friends get denied was the most heartbreaking thing I have seen and ruined a night that up until that moment was full of fun. There is no other celebrity that I know of who has a one rule limit to how many times you can meet someone, and this rule conducted by her management makes dehumanizes Taylor. She is a person, not a trophy, and there should be no limit to how many times you are able to meet a person. At the beginning of tour, during her “Long Live” speech, she would always mention how she loved meeting fans whom she had met years prior again and seeing how much their lives have changed and how she has remained a part of that consistency. If Taylor loves meeting fans multiple times and she is the boss, then why should her management have such a rule to deny and break dedicated fans’ hearts? This I have been a fan of Taylor since I was ten years old, and it took me nine years to finally meet her, and it is devastating knowing that I will never be able to hug her or thank her for everything ever again because of this rule. A better solution to the problem of meeting Taylor would be a one meeting per album cycle, but then again, knowing her management’s inconsistency, there would be exceptions to the rule and would be unfair to every other fan wondering why they were not considered to be worthy enough of bending the rules.